Fix on a topic of her choosing Guys are always more comfortable when talking about a subject they introduced. But it happens so often—we need to be comfortable in such situations—thatmost womenare left nodding their heads, sipping their cocktail and scanning the room for someone who doesn’t have to listen to himself jabber. After the preliminary niceties, see if you can’t latch onto a topic she has partially unsheathed, and then grasp it firmly. She brought it up; how can she grow bored with her own topic? However, bear in mind that only seasoned veterans should really attempt this on a frequent basis; it really is much easier to have a prepared“in,”and there’s no way to prepare for the unknown. However, if you’re successful with this tip, you will ingratiate yourself immediately and score big points by allowing her to take command.