The Golden Rules of being a player, if you will—are about picking up and satisfying women. Usually referred to as The Player's Code, these are the lessons and modes of conduct that giveThe Playeran advantage over just some"guy looking to pick up,"which is most males. You probably already do some of these things, but could use work on others. Most of these points will not be assimilated into your routine overnight; they require practice and dedication. After all, while it might not be easy to become a true player, it's certainly worth the effort—not to mention it's a fun ride. Today, we cover phase one of The Player's activities: the art of the pickup. the art of the pickup 1- Always be mentally ready to pick up There are attractive women all around us—at the supermarket or waiting on you at a clothing store, in line at the bank, on the street... I actually get more than half of my pickups in such random places. While my conversion rate on these is slightly lower than with women Imeet at barsor parties (they're not expressly looking for it), unexpected locations have turned up some pretty good finds. Remember: Women don't expect to be hit on as they go about their daily lives, and, therefore, they are that much more flattered when it happens. Most often, I'll strike up a conversation while waiting in a store, based on what's going on around us. You could comment on the wait ("I hope there's a meal at the end of this line"), what she's chosen to buy ("Huh, I looked at that but passed it up. Have I made a mistake?"), or anything, really. It could be on the street, too. The point is, you have a few moments to notice a hot woman, then look around, think of a clever line and deliver it in your mostconfident manner. But approaching strangers is, in itself, a little nerve-wracking, let alone hot women. A good way to improve your skills is by starting casual small talk with random people—both men and women whom you're not necessarily attracted to. Then you won't feel the pressure of impressing them. If you're already pretty comfortable chatting, then next time you see a woman you like on the street you can approach her without being nervous